The ‘theft’ of my 3 babies (Pt.41)

the role of “a HUSBAND: OF GOD”

Proverbs 18:22New King James Version (NKJV)

22 He who finds a wife finds a good thing,
And obtains favor from the Lord.
https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Proverbs+18%3A22&version=NKJV

THE ONLY ONE WORTHY OF ME…IS A MAN OF GOD. for this I am blessed and god is good..tho, i sit single married to God…for he told me he hasn’t found anyone worthy of me as of yet, for they don’t listen to HIM they listen to themselves..HE still searches…the one’s whom claim HIM…sad nobody and for this I am blessed and god is mad at MAN

3.16.17 update   

I say supposedly because MAN, including my supposed arranged husband Joshua Paul Cunning have played God doing illegal mind control government experiment with me since 1983 via Mexican mafia via cockfighting via my own blood I survived by grace of God to tell…. they fake me out all my life of marring… and, Joshua faked me out, was wise in his own eyes, and dropped me on my head in 2009 already.. ANY WAY, SUPPOSEDLY THIS TIME “HE”~ jOSHUA was suppose to be SORRY and take imidiate action, but he too ended up ‘dirty’ in high places of San Diego and more. HE was SUPPOSEDLY PICKING ME UP ANYTIME IN LESS THANK 86 DAYS TO END THIS, OLD HELL OF A LIFE AND LIFT ME UP INTO THE 2%, THAT HE LIVES IN AND ENJOY SHOWING IT TO ME AND SHARING IT WITH ME.. FOR REAL THIS TIME..

IN GOD i TRUST IN WHAT I DON’T SEE, BUT IN ANY MAN AS OF YET.. I TRUST NONE… i WILL ONLY BELIEVE IT “IF” IT HAPPENS.. i DO KNOW THAT gOD HAS ASSURED ME, THAT IF FAKING ME OUT AND MIND GAMING ME IS WHAT THEY AND JOSHUA DO..AND HE DOESN’T COME..THEN, AFTER THE 86 DAYS, HE TOO CAN GO AWAY AND GOD WILL LIFT ME UP, ONE WAY OR ANOTHER..INTO MY EARTHLY GIFTS FROM HIM, AS A SINGLE WOMAN ONLY MARRIED TO HIM OR BETTER, LIKE CALL ME HOME OUT OF THIS CHRONIC/ACUTE DISABLED SICK, neglected, abused, abandoned, opppressed by men of Satan who illegally retaliate and take advantage of the less fortunate.. BODY AND i TRUST IN THIS… Thank you Abba Father, my hero.. who’s ‘karma’ finds favor in me.. who I live to please and be good in with… 

The role of the husband in the Bible starts with leadership.

Scripture makes it very clear that a husband must be a leader of his home and have healthy control of his life.

1 Timothy 3; in speaking of two church leadership positions traditionally filled by men, teaches that an Overseer and Deacon must manage their family well. Verse 5 specifically says, “If anyone does not know how to manage his own family, how can he take care of God’s church?”

Furthering this understanding,

Ephesians 5:21-24 says, “Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ. Wives, submit to your husbands as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything.” Again, in

1 Corinthians 11:3, Scripture says, “But I want you to realize that the head of every man is Christ, and the head of the woman is man, and the head of Christ is God.”

One of the primary roles of a husband in the Bible, then, is to lead. Leadership simply means influence. Therefore, a biblically-based husband should influence his family. Husbands are not dictators, they should not demand, they should not rule over their wives. Instead, husbands should influence their wives and families in accordance with biblical teaching. They should exemplify, with their voice and their actions, attributes that bring glory to God and value to their spouse and family. The fruit of a good biblically-based husband is a strong, confident, spiritually mature wife and family.

Two very specific ways a husband influences his home is through his provision and protection.

Role of the Husband in the Bible – Provider and Protector
The role of the husband in the Bible starts with leadership, but encompasses provision and protection. A husband will never influence his wife if he does not care for her. He can demand and she may follow as a result, but he will never truly have her heart unless he provides for her needs, cares for her well-being, and protects her both physically and spiritually. For as Scripture says:

“Anyone who does not provide for their relatives, and especially for their own household, has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever”

(1 Timothy 5:8).“Husbands, love your wives and do not be harsh with them”

(Colossians 3:19).“Husbands, in the same way be considerate as you live with your wives, and treat them with respect as the weaker partner and as heirs with you of the gracious gift of life, so that nothing will hinder your prayers”

(1 Peter 3:7).God loves His daughters and the children they bear. When He gives one of His daughters to a man, He desires that the man cares for her. In no place does Scripture teach or endorse that women and children be considered second rate or inferior to men. Instead, He finds them so precious that He asks for special care to be given them; a care that only biblically-based men can provide. Women are very capable of taking care of themselves. However, God did make men and women different and thus due to the physical nature and strength God gave men, He has charged them with the provision and protection of their families.

The physical nature and strength of a man is to be managed with grace and gentleness. God did not create men to lord over women nor did he create women to simply wait on men. He made them both to complement each other through healthy companionship.
Role of the Husband in the Bible – Companion
The role of the husband in the Bible is fulfilled through the heart of companionship.

Ephesians 5:25-33 says, “Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her to make her holy, cleansing her by the washing with water through the word, and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless. In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. After all, no one ever hated his own body, but he feeds and cares for it, just as Christ does the church—for we are members of his body. ‘For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.’ This is a profound mystery—but I am talking about Christ and the church. However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.”

The relationship between a husband and a wife is meant to be one of love, respect, and support. They are to help each other. This idea is introduced at the beginning of the Bible in the story of the creation of Eve. Adam needed a companion, a suitable helper, yet one could not be found until God created Eve.

Genesis 2:20-24 says, “…But for Adam no suitable helper was found. So the LORD God caused the man to fall into a deep sleep; and while he was sleeping, he took one of the man’s ribs and then closed up the place with flesh. Then the LORD God made a woman from the rib he had taken out of the man, and he brought her to the man. The man said, ‘This is now bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh; she shall be called “woman,” for she was taken out of man.’ That is why a man leaves his father and mother and is united to his wife, and they become one flesh.”

This also leads to another understanding of companionship. God created men and women with natural, physical, and emotional differences. Usually where one is weak, the other is strong. Therefore, a husband and wife can help each other by meeting the other person’s needs through physical and emotional intimacy.

1 Corinthians 7:2-5 addresses this, “But since sexual immorality is occurring, each man should have sexual relations with his own wife, and each woman with her own husband. The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband. The wife does not have authority over her own body but yields it to her husband. In the same way, the husband does not have authority over his own body but yields it to his wife. Do not deprive each other except perhaps by mutual consent and for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.” When the needs of our spouse are properly met through healthy companionship, the two can help each other and can live a successful life together.

Lastly, through their companionship a husband and wife work together as a team to develop and grow a family. God’s plan was that every home operate under the specific roles of both a husband and a wife and that through this they raise healthy children who honor God with their lives.

Ephesians 6:1-3 says, “Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. ‘Honor your father and mother’ —which is the first commandment with a promise— ‘so that it may go well with you and that you may enjoy long life on the earth.’” Children are blessed through the honor of their mother and father working in unison to train them up in the way they should go.

The companionship between a man and a woman is directed by the influence of the husband through his provision and protection and is covered by his caring, gentle, and graceful love for his wife and family. Without the biblical roles of a husband being fulfilled by a strong man of God, the family unit risks the difficulties brought on by sin and spiritual distortion. Satan desires the destruction of the family, but through Christ and proper understanding of biblical roles, the family is a strong and safe place to grow in God.   http://www.allaboutgod.com/role-of-husband-in-the-bible.htm

Lyrics given to me by God and may be viewed with many others on this link: https://whome420.wordpress.com/2016/09/27/lyrics-for-god-from-god-to-me/    Titled” LYRICS: FOR GOD~ numbers 6 and 9

6. MY LOVE AFFAIR SONG WITH OUR LORD MY HUSBAND AND HERO

dooodididdoodoo~falalalafalawwww “sing”

I HEARD THE SPIRIT OF GOD CALLING ME  ACROSS THE CONCRETE JUNGLE, OVER TO THE SALTY SANDS AND SEA’S! HE SAID, “YOU’RE THE SPIRIT OF LOVE ME ANGEL, NOW TURN AROUND AND SHAKE YOUR BOOTIE FOR MEEEEE.. I CROWNED YOU MY PRINCESS, I MADE YOU MY QUEEN, NOW TURN AROUND AND  BOUNCE THAT BOOTIE FOR YOUR KING…  dooodididdoodoo~falalalafalawwww “sing”

9. “woman”the Original serpent

1 Timothy 2:10Easy-to-Read Version (ERV)

¹⁰ But they should make themselves attractive by the good things they do. That is more appropriate for women who say they are devoted to God.)(b) “it was the woman who was deceived and became a sinner.” )    https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=1+Timothy+2%3A10&version=ERV

Goes with lyrics and the title God gave me: “Eve the original serpent”! HALLELUJAH FOR THEM LYRICS, TITLE, AND VERSE THAT STATES what the song is about, Lord.

LYRICS: “woman”the Original serpent 

dooodididdoodoo~falalalafalawwww “sing”

A “woman” is only a “WO” without her “man”…the original serpent was a “wo’man” who was deceived and fell into sin..She is who enticed Adam he “man” to sin with her and listen to GOD no more!!! A “wo’man” is only a “wo” without her “man”; for she is the one whom went a stray and was whom was deceived by the devil…She is who baited Adam to sin with her….I am only a “WO”, cause I have no “man” to lead me in the way of HIM….and, GOD, himself is my MAN…..”woman” is only a “WO” without her “man”. Man wasn’t not the one deceived; it was the woman who was deceived and became a sinner…and, lead Adam into SIN!!! and, a “man” is just a “man” without his “wo”; together they are wo’man!!!   

dooodididdoodoo~falalalafalawwww “sing”